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So, it’s been a few days – how do things feel and what have I learned? Strangest thing, after three years of searching for people locally to build friendships and network, about six people suddenly fell in my lap. I went to my first Munch the other night, and I have a dinner tomorrow night.…
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As per my text. On some level this all feels so very dramatic and immature. The last thing Molly said to me was, “Take your time grieving, you’ll find that the world has moved on without you.” Like, what? Lol. Who knew that a bunch of neurodivergent queers wouldn’t have their shit together.
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I tend to seek fewer, deeper relationships, and I do not apologize for naming them as deep as they actually are, even when they do not follow the traditional relationship escalator. By that, I mean the default script where “real” relationships are expected to move through a series of milestones (exclusive dating, cohabitation, marriage, kids,…
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I remember scrolling through r/polyamory like it was yesterday, desperately trying to understand what polyamory actually meant and how to “save” my marriage, just one week after our wedding ceremony. I thought I had found “the one”: a good stepmother, a good lover, someone I could build a life with. Amanda always wanted to go deeper with…
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And…… (those damn AND feelings) From left to right! M, L, E, K! I’m partner with L & K! K and L are also in a partnership & there is me, L, K in a triad! Three discrete circles! I’m on M’s “pebble list” which is such a darn cute thing, and I’m a “fond…
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Had a shame spiral this morning & not too happy with it, but also proud of myself for not burning bridges like old versions of myself would. Healing isn’t linear and that gap between feeling and action is a very nice place to be. I can be kind to myself also. I won’t go into…
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Things deepened in the polycule over the past week, I fell into a thing with E & M put me on their “pebble list” – these things happened within 30 minutes of each other, independently, which was quite interesting. M and I hung out and played games last night, then we shared about our hometowns…
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As I sit here in bed, the cat looking over my laptop and the doggo laying next to me on the floor, hopeful for long consumed chicken nuggets, I again send my lived experiences throughout the ether. Much has changed since I was last able to write. There are still things I cannot discuss, such…
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I had some good time outside today waiting for the truck driver to deliver. Some back and forth with poor expectations on the delivery timing, nearly lost my ability to unload the crate due to the driver arriving exactly at 5pm and the business with the forklift closing! But I made the best of it.…
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I’m trying something different this time, a kit from Vantopia! I’m not the world’s best woodworker and needed some help. The overall plan is simple, install the kit and put in a desk in the blank space: The AW3423DWF I use is 32″ wide, leaving 20″ free on the desk, perfect to put the TR100…
Little Lifeboat 